

For a more comprehensive list, check out this resource compiled by Dr. There are many other pronoun sets that exist as well. It’s appropriate to use the name a person shares with you.

Some people don’t use pronouns, some people use different pronouns in different settings, and sometimes we forget to ask for pronouns or aren’t comfortable doing so.

The ze/hir, ze/zir pronoun sets come from the trans community as another gender-neutral pronoun set.I should ask them next time.” It’s also very important to honor that some people specifically use they/them/their pronouns instead of he or she to represent their identity outside of the gender binary. How can we find out who they are?” or “I’m not sure what their pronouns are. They is often used in reference to a singular person whose gender pronouns are unknown, such as in the sentences “Someone left their umbrella here. The Oxford English Dictionary sources the singular they as far back as 1375. In addition to its use as a plural pronoun, they/them/their has a rich history of use as a gender-neutral singular pronoun in the English language.Likewise, we can’t assume that all people we assume or know to be female use she/her/hers pronouns. Similar to the he/him/his set, these pronouns can refer to people who identify as girls or women, but are not limited to female-identified people.While he can be an affirming pronoun for some people, we can’t assume that all people who appear to be masculine or affirm a male identity use he/him/his pronouns. These pronouns can refer to people who identify as boys or men, but are not limited to male people.
